10 Signs He's Satisfied In Bed (And Wants You All The Damn Time)

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10 Signs He's Satisfied In Bed (And Wants You All The Damn Time)

Sex has become increasingly important and discussed part of adult couples' lives, and that means that it's really common for people to wonder if they're fulfilling their partners in bed.

With all the crazy stuff being posted online, it's easy to feel like you're not enough, even if you are. 

This is especially true when most guys won't openly admit that they aren't feeling it in bed.

It's also normal to ponder how to know if your man is satisfied in bed, and thanks to these signs he enjoys you in bed, you can do so. 

That being said, most of us have wondered if we're really as good in bed as our partners say we are.

Here are 10 signs for how to know if your man is satisfied in bed.

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1. He initiates sex.

Generally speaking, a dead bedroom or a one-sided bedroom is a sign that he's not being fulfilled by you. If anything, it suggests that you should probably be looking into a breakup.

If he's initiating sex on a regular basis, he's still enjoying getting it from you and this is one of the signs of a sexually satisfied man. If you want to keep him even more excited, then why not return the favor and maybe try out different sex positions or add in some sex toys?

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2. He's pretty upbeat.

Assuming that the two of you are having sex and both have positive sexual behavior, a guy who seems happy overall is a good sign. Men who aren't satisfied tend to be moody, huffy, or distant.

They may also just seem overall depressed.

3. Sex isn't a big issue in your relationship.

A very wise person once pointed out, and so has a relationship expert, that sex is the only issue that's never a big deal when it's satisfactory, but can be the potential problem when it's gone.

If it doesn't seem like it's a problem to either of you, he's happy with what he's getting.

4. Cuddling is common.

Sex isn't just about P in V. It's about the entire experience, and guys won't be fulfilled without some soft caresses and kisses in the mix.

Cuddling is also a common sexual activity as well. Cuddles and other forms of affection are what make sex with your romantic partner different from the sex he would have with a Fleshlight. 

5. He tells you he's satisfied.

If a guy says he's happy, he usually is. Guys are pretty honest about things like that. Therefore if he tells you, then there's no need to question or find signs he is satisfied sexually.

However, if you do have any questions about how he feels, ask him. More often than not, he'll tell you straight up how he feels.

6. Oral sex is reciprocated.

Most of the time, a guy who isn't feeling good about his sex life won't be very oral. The reason why is because he will feel like he's giving, but not getting, and that will make him stop giving. If he's licking you up, it's a good sign.

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7. Affection, in general, is very frequent between you two.

How to keep my husband sexually satisfied? A person who isn't getting sexually satisfied will very rarely ever go out of their way to be affectionate with their partner.

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If he's always smooching on you, it's a sign he loves you. 

8. He isn't straying.

Don't get me wrong: even satisfied men can stray. But if a guy stays loyal to you, it's often a sign that he's also happy with the way things are in bed.

If you want to spice it up a bit, why not play out a sexual fantasy of yours with him and vice versa?

9. You actually make a point of listening to what he wants in bed, keeping an open mind, and being accommodating to him.

A guy who has a girl willing to meet him halfway usually will be very thankful for it. It's actually pretty rare to have, and that's why many men are pretty happy to be with someone who does offer them that.

10. He brags about it.

If you're wondering, "how do you know he enjoyed it?" your answer is if he brags about it or tells you how great it was.

If he's really happy, you might overhear him bragging to his friends about what a great deal his sex life is and how much he enjoys sex with you. That means you really are the girl he's all about.

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Ossiana Tepfenhart is a Jack-of-all-trades writer based out of Red Bank, New Jersey. When she's not writing, she's drinking red wine and chilling with some cool cats. You can follow her @bluntandwitty on Twitter.