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5 Kinky Tips For BJ Bliss (From A Sex Pro)

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Giving your man good oral sex is not the most difficult thing in the world. However, many women often think it is.

This is very unfortunate as there are only a small number of things that make for a great blow job.

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If you follow the advice below, you will learn how to give a blow job in no time.

1. Show enthusiasm.

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By far the biggest turn-on for your man when learning how to give a blow job is enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is not really a technique, though; it's an attitude.

It's incredibly ego-boosting for him. This works as a very powerful aphrodisiac and will ultimately make him have a much stronger orgasm.

2. Be confident.

Confidence is a tricky topic when it comes to getting sexual with a guy. Again, it's an attitude as opposed to a technique.

When you are confident, you'll be able to smoothly grab it, stroke it, lick it and take it into your mouth. But when you lack confidence, you might hesitate when touching or holding his penis.

There is no magic pill when it comes to sexual confidence. It comes with practice and positive experiences that your man gets.

You don't necessarily need a guy to practice on. You can use something like a banana or a dildo instead of your man to gain confidence before actually giving him oral sex.

3. Learn some hot oral sex positions beforehand.

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If you're on your knees every time you go down on your man, then he's going to get bored pretty quickly.

It's much more powerful to learn some fun and kinky positions to use on him.

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4. Switch up your technique.

So many girls only have one or two techniques in their oral sex arsenal. The most common is what I like to call the "In & Out" where you simply take him into your mouth and out again while wrapping your lips around his shaft.

Now, the "In & Out" is great, but don't rely on it as your only technique. Instead, you should be learning a range of different blow job tips and techniques to use on him if you really want to give him a good time.

These include the wild washing machine technique, the fantasy flicking technique, and the triple threat technique:

Wild Washing Machine Technique: For the wild washing machine technique, take the head of his penis into your mouth. Then, like a washing machine out of control that spins and spins, use your tongue to make circles around his penis tip.

Fantasy Flicking Technique: Just like a musician strums a guitar, the fantasy flicking technique involves the use of your tongue. Unlike the wild washing machine technique, however, instead flick your tongue, being sure to focus on the frenulum, or the area where the foreskin meets the underside of his penis.

Triple Threat Technique: The triple threat involves the use of not only your tongue, but your hands and mouth as well. As you use your tongue to make circles on his penis tip, squeeze your mouth using mild pressure and use your hands to stroke his shaft in a twisting manner, going up and down.

5. Don't forget about his testicles.

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When you start thinking about how to give a blow job to your man, you may become preoccupied with his penis. This is fine, but don't forget about his testicles, too.

Have you ever seen a guy get a blow "south of the border"? Notice how he will usually fall onto the ground while wincing and screaming out in pain. Why? Because he is super-sensitive down there.

Thankfully, you can use this knowledge to your benefit when discovering how to give a blow job and make it way more intense by paying them some attention.

Using your mouth, you can gently lick and kiss them. You can also take it a step further by taking them into your mouth and very gently massaging them with your tongue.

Now, if you are not keen on having his testicles in or near your mouth, try using your hands and fingers instead to gently touch, stroke, caress and massage them. Working his testicles with your hands while simultaneously giving him a blow job can lead to some incredibly powerful orgasms for your man.

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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life.

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